Immersion tips: How to meet natives
We've all heard stories about someone going to a foreign country for a year and coming back able to speak the language "fluently." (I don't like that word, read this article to find out why.)
But immersion in a foreign country doesn't mean you'll automatically learn the language!
I've heard many more complaints from people living abroad who, despite being surrounded by the language everyday, don't seem to learn it. One problem is that they end up speaking their native language most of the time, rather than meeting new people and engaging them in real conversation in the language they are learning.
So, how can you meet new people in a foreign country and get the most out of your immersion experience? Read more for tips!
You can learn any language from anywhere in the world, but one of the huge benefits of being immersed in a foreign country is contact with native speakers.
When we first moved to Poland, we didn't know very many people. Those we did know were all people we spoke English with: other foreigners, other teachers at our school and our students. For the first couple months, the only time I actually got to speak in Polish was at stores, restaurants and government offices -- luckily for me there is a lot of bureaucracy in Poland! :-)
Ordering lunch or arguing with the lady at the tax office is good practice, but you learn everything there is to learn in those situations very quickly.
Like most people, I'm not very good at meeting strangers. I've always met people through other people I already know. For example, maybe I'd be at my friend's birthday party and one of his friends introduces me to another friend.
But in a new country, how do you make that first friend? How do you get invited to that party? How do you break out of your native language community?
If I hadn't made a conscious effort to try to meet more Polish people, I don't think I ever would have.
A language exchange is where you meet with someone who's native language is the language you are learning and your native language is the language they are learning. For the first half of the meeting you talk in one language and for the second half you talk in the other.
For example, I would meet with a Polish person learning English. The first 30 minutes we speak in Polish and for the second 30 minutes we speak in English.
This is a great way to practice! Unlike lessons with a teacher, it's more social and you both have something to gain. It can also be less stressful to talk with someone else who is learning -- you don't worry about your mistakes because they're making mistakes too! And unlike ordering lunch, it's a real conversation.
You can even do a language exchange over the internet via e-mail or Skype. But the best way is in person! There's just no substitute for being in the same room together, being able to see the other person's face and really interacting with that person.
I've made a lot of friends this way!
Before we moved to Poland, I never joined any clubs, mainly because my friends and I already shared similar interests. So, joining a club wasn't something that occurred to me right away.
But joining a club is great way to meet like-minded people. In Cracow, I got involved in the Language Exchange Kraków and TANDEM Kraków clubs. Both groups organized events and meetings in or about various languages.
But you don't have to join a language club! That's just what I'm interested in. :-)
You could join a knitting club, a Latin dance club, a science fiction club, a model train club or a book club - whatever you happen to have a passion for!